Au Contraire: Figuring Out the French
Why the French keep seeming rude to visitors, and what is actually being communicated instead.
A guide to French cultural logic for outsiders who keep misreading it, covering how debate, hierarchy, formality and disagreement function differently than an Anglophone visitor expects. Useful less as travel writing than as a study of how deeply culture shapes behaviour that both sides assume is universal.
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Derek Sivers
The absolute best book I've ever found on explaining the mindset of a country. (Runner-up is “Watching the English” by Kate Fox.) I wish every country had a book this deep. Not just what but why!
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